Everything depends on your feelings

 Couldn't you make a sence of what I said?! Alright, let me ask you couple of qusetions. Have you ever wondered if you have the ability to be happy all the time?! Or with another way, Are we supposed to feel everytime with a different way whenever we face different experiences?! Are experiences the responsibles of our feelings?! I mean, are we supposed to feel bad everytime we face a bad day at school/work?! Are we supposed to feel sad everytime we lose something or someone?! Wait, are we really supposed to feel angry everytime we have a fight with a friend?!

 Maybe your answer is yes, and maybe you say that are obliged to feel like that, and you say that this is life!! But... Is it?

 What I want to say is for a reason or another, the meaning of life has become the same for most of us, everytime we don't find an answer or an explanation for something we just say that it should be like that because it is just life. And we have nothing to do about it. So we are kind of not living our own worls, but we are living the world that made by others.

 It's still little bit unclear?! Alright, will you believe me if I say that with your feelings, you can change everything in this life? How's that?! Let's say that today, you woke up happy, with no reason, you just woke up happy, it happens sometimes, doesn't it?! Alright, you woke up happy, so, how will you see your day and your life?! How will you act with people?! How will you act with your job?! I know you have just the right answer but let me tell you. Sometimes when we wake up happy, we just share our happiness with everybody without noticing that, we become angles, we change our look to people, to life, and to everything. But, why can't we become all happy all the time?!

 Happiness is a state of mind isn't it?! I'll explain this in another day, but you need to realize that happiness is something under control all the time. And  you can just be happy all the time. What I want to say is you can change your life by changing your feelings in the place of letting things change your feelings, got the picture now?! Maybe you say it is not that easy, but the moment you believe it is true, everything will be easy to you. And you will just, start living your own life, on your own world, finally;

And the secret of this life... Is in first steps, Always

What is your age?! 10,20? 30? 40? 50? 60,70,80? Seriously, what is your age?! Let me ask you a question, what is the thing that you wanted to achieve the most?! What is the thing that you wanted to make it true the most and you just didn't want try because you just, you just think that you are not ready yet, or your are younger to go for it, or it is just, too late to fight for it?!! There must be a thing that you are just afraid to make its first step!

 But hey, guess what?! Are you really too young to go for it?! Just a simple question that needs a simple answer, don't make it complicated, Want to know the answer?! The answer is NO! You are not young for anything you want to do whatever it is. Even if it looks weird to people, or impossible to people, you need to believe. You need to believe that it is never too late, and it is never too early, because everytime, making the first step is the key that opens everything to you. This is life, and the secret of this life is in first steps...Always.

 What I want to say is, no matter what is your age now, it is just the perfect age for a first step that is going to change your life, even if nobody will notice. Do you know why?! Alright, I will tell you, it is just the perfect age because now, I believe, something inside of you is telling you to go for it, to fight for it, to destroy any fear come to you and keep telling you to give up. Something inside of you is trying to let you believe that if you take this first step? It  will open a new life for you, where dreams are true.

How about that?!

Capacity is a state of mind

 It happend to all of us. When sometimes we find ourselves tired and weak and we just, think that we are not able to fight harder. We think that our capacity ends right here right now. And there is no way to keep fighting.

 But... How many people know that capacity is a state of mind ?!

 What do we mean by "State of mind" ?!

 What "State of mind" means is that we are ready, and we have the ability to make our own capacity just between us and our minds. How cool is that?! No really. There is nothing hard unless you think it is hard! You can always fight more as long as you think and you believe that you still can fight more. It is just... Like magic, we make our own worlds. Our own lives, we decide what is easy and what is not. We decide what can we do, and what we cannot. And believe me, humains in general can really do alot of stuff. More then you can imagine...

 This is exactly how miracles happend, this is exactly what made people change their lives and change the whole world, they didn't make a limit for what can they do, and they just moved forward. This is exactly what make the whole difference between normal people and genuises. Seriously... This makes the whole difference.

 So now you discovered that, then what?!

How much does this life worth?!

I don't know what is wrong but.. It gives me feeling that everytime.. I just need to fight harder. I don't but.. It just gives me feeling that show to me how much does this life worth.

 But hey wait... Seriously, How much does this life worth?!

 What is our goals in this life?! What do we want to do?! What do we want to achieve?! What do we want to change?! How much we are ready to sacrifice?!

 Alot of questions are asked, and just.. There's no answer to make things clearer. Maybe I personaly don't know the real answer of these questions, but I know this: Life somehow, for a reason or another, it takes us in an adventure between it's ups and downs just to help us to find the answers of all the questions that we asked.

 But, What are we suppose to do to get the real answers?!

 I believe that life is moving fast, and alot of people are just falling behind.. So to be a winner in this life and to be able to see the real answers you need just to move with this life like two parrarel lines! Same speed, same way. And to deal with it and to never let yourself fall behind. Only then, answers will be clear to you, and everything will seem so in sence. And you'll be just ready, to fight exactly like you shuold fight.

Don't you think that we already gave up on alot of things so far?!

Everytime you feel tired and you just don't want to keep fighting anymore, or you just want to stop and give up. You need just to remember what are you fighting for and what it meant to you before. When you get this feeling of stop fighting, just remember, is giving up going to provide you a better future?! Is your dreams really not worth it that much to stop fighting?!

 Because sometimes, we just give up when we face hard situations, we totally forget with a really weird way what once meant everything to us. We always forget that what is coming is always better. We forget that moving forward makes us stronger, and we forget that we'll regret everything we gave up on!

 We usually live the moment, and forget the past and the future. So we forget what we used to fight for, and we forget what are we fighting for, and bad stuff start coming to our minds, and then?! We're screwed.

 Don't you think that we already gave up on alot of things so far?!

It's your turn to feel unbreakable

 Sometimes, we just find ourselves fighting alone. With unexpected way everyone who was besides us once will be gone. With a really weird way we just find ourselves fighting against them all. But that.. That should teach us something! Well, it taught me alot of things actually.

 It taught me that waiting people is always the wrong choice! It taught me that expecting things from people is also, always the wrong choice! I don't know but, I must say that it taught me that I should never, never let people control me, because believe it or not, people want to do that all the time.

 What I want to try to say is: people, or most of them at least, will let you down, and leave you fighting on your own, and you will probably feel bad, you'll feel sad, you may feel like you are not good enough..

 But you must realize that once you control your life, and once you understand that expecting things from people will be a reason for you to feel like you shouldn't feel, and once you know that people will always let you down if you spend your time waiting for people. once you understand that, you'll feel strong, and you'll just feel that you don't have to deal with alot alot of emotions problems.

 But hey, we're not here to hate anyone don't we?! Don't you ever forget that controling your life and being unbreakable against people won't mean anything if we keep wasting our time hating people.. We love, we care, we smile, but we don't expect anything from anyone, Alright?!

Your road of success: Step TEN

Step TEN - Sum it up and start

You are almost done now. if you have managed understand the zest of article, you have successfully realize that you can be a successful entrepreneur if you can stick to some easy simple strategies. All of us want to be rich and famous like Bill Gates but most of the people have no clear idea about how to achieve this dream. That is why many people tend to lose their dedication as they keep on trying without any outcome. But if you have can clearly see what you want to do in your life and have a well prepared plan, then it will be a piece of cake for you and you will become a successful entrepreneur.

You are now aware of your current status, your background, you strengths, your weakness and your potential. This is your first initiative to start your life in a new direction. Be honest to yourself when you are evaluating your current status deciding where you want to see yourself. Try to complement your present state with your strengths and get rid of any bad habit that might be hampering your progress in the long run. Discover your talents, the strongest traits in you that will be your biggest tool. Don’t forget to align your talents with your areas of interest. If you don’t have any talent or expertise in the area you are diving in to you will find it really difficult to survive then. Also always try to improve your talents or develop new ones that will keep you competent for future competition. The same goes with your values as well.

Once you have you have developed your mission statement that is specific, measurable, achievable, relevant and time bound, you will be able to determine your projects as well. One thing to keep in mind that you project planning should be really in-depth and well planned. Your main focus is to achieve your mission in life which might have life span of 50 years but your projects have to be more precise and concurrent that can be based on 1, 2, 5, 10 or even 25 years. Also be specific about the roles that you will be playing in your projects. Keeping your project and role in your mind, you will be sketching your project plan. Keep in mind that you will need to prioritize your projects and plans as well as address them according to your planned deadline or time scale.

When you sum up all these, you will clearly see your goals, strategies and direction. The key success factor here is your dedication and focus. Keep working on your projects following every planned step and always conduct review of progress periodically like once a week, once a month and for longer projects, once a year.

Your road of success: Step NINE

 

Step NINE - Manage your time

We have been hearing this throughout our life that time and tide waits for none. Although we might have been able to stall tide through dam, it’s been impossible stall time with anything. Time will go on with its own pace and it is your own responsibilities to cope with time and complete tasks on time which will make you successful in life. However, many of us unable to really utilize time due our own bad habit which should be corrected as soon as possible.

If you are not good time, you must try to find out what’s your problems are in the first place.  If you are always missing your deadlines, falling behind others the definitely there is something wrong with you. But font worry, there is good news for you that you fix it very quickly and easily. First, start with asking yourself about your feelings of how you are managing your time. If you can’t realize that you missing out a fortune while ignoring, you will be really difficult for you utilize your time. Again, ask yourself where is the problem because of which you keep missing your deadlines? Most of us miss their deadline and ignore time due to lack of attention and distraction. Often we get distracted into some less important thing which in the end actually wastes our time. Due to personal problem, we also find it difficult to give full attention to our duties and miss our deadline. Finally, there are always accidental issues which make us to forget about time.

As you can see there are so many things in life that can become a hurdle for you in managing your time. But if you follow some simple guidance, you will be able to get rid of the habit of missing your deadline and manage your time more effectively. The very first thing which can help you to manage your time is to follow a calendar. Keep a calendar in your room and always try to write down important events on it. The notes will always remind about your deadlines and important things to be done. One more effective tool is a task or to do list, where you can write all your specific tasks in details with their own deadlines. Keep it somewhere close to you so that you can always have easy access to the list. If you running a little generous on your budget, then you can also go for some digital assistants or PDA’s that comes in really compact size but fully loaded with features that can help even the laziest persons to manage their time. Even the new mobile phones also come with their time management tools such as calendar, alarm system, to do list which can afford at a very reasonable price and create your own time management system.

However, you should keep one thing in mind that it’s you who will be utilizing your time, not the time management system. You might have the most sophisticated time management system in the world, but if you are not dedicated your goals, you will be always missing your deadline and won’t be able to manage your time.

Your road of success: Step EIGHT

 Step EIGHT - Planning your projects

You have been making a tremendous progress if you have followed through so far. Now you are coming to one of the most final stages where dreams are not far away from becoming a reality. You have your projects, your talents and roles all identified which makes you ready to plan for the projects that identified earlier.

Planning for the project is a very critical task as it incorporates number multi dimensional aspects. While planning for your projects, how you want to make them ready to be actualized, you should first consider the opportunities with the project. The project with the highest opportunities should be your prior targets in the first place and then you should also rank other projects based on their weight and chances. 

Start with writing your projects that you have previously identified in step five. The next phase for in planning for projects is to go analysis of environment, threats, opportunities, weakness and strengths. This will be really helpful for you identify what kind of issues you might have to deal with when you will be running your projects.

Next task for you is to identify and allocate resources in order to commence your project. Your resources can both monetary and non-monetary. You might need different kind of resources for your project but one thing is sure that you have to make the best possible utilization of them. Hence, preparing budget is really important which will help to track you usage and also identify if there was any wastage or not. After you budget preparation, your next task is to identify your deliverables, what you want accomplish through this project. As your mission, you project planning should be SMART as well. You should also think about a supportive team and supportive strategy.

Your milestone is also an important factor that can help you review your progress and success. If you can carefully fix your milestones then you will find it very easy to measure your performance after achieving each milestone. So think very deeply about your milestones, keep it achievable and don’t jump for so big targets which you won’t be able to manage. If you are running a big project, you should look for some help as it will be very difficult for you to go through all the responsibilities by yourself. So always try to plan your workloads and delegate extra pressure on your team in advance. Along with the support team, your supportive strategy like communication strategy, risk management plans, and alternative strategies will be also critical. This are your resources to help keep moving forward in successfully completing your task. You should be really careful about this and if you find it difficult to arrange so, you should go some expert help although it might cost you some money.

Your road of success: Step SEVEN

  Step SEVEN - Determine your role

The next step in this order is to identify the roles that you are going to play in these projects. Roles are nothing but related set of behaviors, duties, rights and obligations that you have to abide them in dealing with your projects. Keep it in mind as a self reliant entrepreneur you will have to play different roles.

It will be very wise of you if you can identify your roles related to your own projects. The roles include but limited to administrative, supportive, managerial, analytical, mentor and many more than you list down. So, again you have been very careful precise while determining your roles related to your aim in life. for example, when you will be running your own business you will have to act as an supervisor to your staff, mentor them in their problem, manage your team and business counterparts and do the paper work for your office. You should prioritize your roles way before so that you don’t get entangled with all the roles you will endowed with.

Start with prioritizing your roles through the identification of roles, which roles are more important and more critical for your success. Rank them in order depending on your projects and relate them to your action plan for future. 

 

But this is not the end of it. When you have determined and ranked your roles, you next job is to master all the roles. You might be already playing a role and been praised for that. However, there is always room for further improvements. So start to analyze all the aspects of the roles, the behaviors, rights, obligations for the time being and make some effort harness them even more. Also you will have to keep in mind that you role as an entrepreneur is organic which will keep changing with time. So you should also keep in mind that you will have make adjustments in your roles to maintain sustainability within yourself and your projects.

Your road of success: Step SIX

   Step SIX - Determining the projects

If you have managed through so far, then you are going a great pace towards your goal to become a successful entrepreneur. Now what you have to do is determine the projects, breakdowns of your missions in to manageable assignments which you are going to chase. Obviously, if you plan to become a successful entrepreneur, you can’t become one over night.  You have to keep trying for this over long period and achieve your goals through accomplishing the tasks one after another in a chronological order. Hence, you must determine your projects with details and perfect assumptions.

While determining your projects, you might be overwhelmed to see that there are so many projects you might end up with. But don’t be so scared. If you work logically you can easily come with your own projects for the coming 50 years and then sort out some projects for coming 10, then 5 followed by 2 and one year. To start with, list down all your values and talents that you have within you and evaluate their present state e.g. how much you already achieved, and how much you have to achieve in future. To be more precise add a percentage to all of them so becomes more clear to you and you will be able to measure your progress more accurately. For example, to be a successful entrepreneur you will need some sort of expertise. So assess how much of knowledge or expertise you already have and how much you are still lacking. Now assign percentage to both of them and prepare a plan to minimize the gap. You might have already have some expertise such academic exposure in the business area which could be 35% and you will need some more expertise  through personal experience which would the rest of the whole, 65%. So now you should make a plan how to achieve the whole 100% over the next 50 years. this is your main project which now you have break down more in to manageable chunks. For example, if you planning to become a true expert in your area within 50 years, then within 10 years achieve a proportionate percentage, one fifth of it such as gain intensive and hands on exposure. Prior to that, you will have to accomplish the  pre-requite of that within 2 years and for the current year you should look for projects that you should commence immediately, for example taking a management training or an internship.

Do the same for all you values and talents by putting them into projects for over 50 to 1 years time scale. You will halfway there to your goals to become the next generation business tycoon.

Your road of success: Step FIVE

 Step FIVE - Defining your mission in life

Now that you have discovered your talents and values, the obvious next course of action for you is to develop your mission in life. A mission is nothing but a long term plan or strategy that you have execute to achieve your goals. Most organizations spend huge resources in their initial phase to define their own mission statement so that they can trace which path to follow and how to follow it. Might be seem a little bit irrelevant to waste so much time and resources just to develop a mission, but it is really critical success factor for you and your organization to develop precise mission as it will help you as an anchor in the vast sea of this competitive market.

So how you are going to define your mission and also come up with your mission statement? It is very simple. Just ask yourself five SMART questions

1. What you want to do (SPECIFIC)?

2. How much do you want achieve (MEASUREABLE)?

3. Is it really possible for you to achieve (ACHIEVABLE)?

4. Will it really help me (RELEVANT)?

5. By when I want accomplish this (TIME)?

So when you combine all five answers together, you will end up with a statement which is actually your mission in your life. So if you are a fresh graduate, you may probably come up with the following statement “To become a Senior Manager in a well reputed bank when I am 30 years old”. You might see this simple statement has all the element e.g. specific, measureable, and achievable, relevance and time and gives a clear idea about where you want to be in future.   
 

You can do the same for you regardless of who you are and where you come from, what your talents and values are. Just simply ask yourself these questions and you will end up with your own customized mission. but you should try keep some aspects in your mind first. You must look for what you specific things you want to do. You might be interested in song writing and you also might have some talent in this area. So be specific to your goal that you want to be a song writer. Then think about a measuring indicator e.g. number of songs and then obviously set deadline for, say end of this year. Then you will have to think whether is it really possible for you or not. If you plan for 100 songs in a year, you are sure to fail in this as it is beyond your achievable limit. So, always plan for a reasonable target like 10 songs and then think whether is it going to help you or not.    If you can work out all these answers out, then hopefully you will end up with your specific, measureable, achievable, time bound and relevant mission of your life that will go like this ”I want write an album with 10 songs by the end of this year”. Try it yourself; you will come up with your mission within a minute keeping in mind that it should target a broad area rather than narrow scope.

Your road for success: Step FOUR

  Step FOUR - Discovering our Values

Our values have the most significant impact on our live. We lead our life through our values that we cherish. In a sense, we are what values follow and ignore. We can be misleading to ourselves and others regarding anything, but it’s the only our values where we are always honest to each others. That’s why people say, our values come deep within us that we should honor with our actions. If we are successful to develop a fit between our values and work, we can make it a really nice and enjoyable experience for us. 

 
Like hidden talents, discovering your values is also an important pre-requisite while you will be preparing for your future life. While doing so, you must ask ourselves what really makes us happy and content. Things that we expect from others and love to be others, is the best way to identify what are our most cherished values. Another way to identify your values is to evaluate the person that we mostly admire and list all his traits such as how he interact with others, how he deals with issues. This could be a really big help for you to identify your values that you might not have been aware earlier. 

 
Different people have different values sets in their life and no two single people will have the identical values. But there are certain values which are mostly esteemed by all. Among these, the most common one is honesty which is admired by all specially in business. Family is our second most prized value without which we can’t live. Another valued possession closed to family is our loyalty to our friends. The community that we live in also dictates our life and as a social being we can’t even think of living without it. Our integrity is another asset that makes us more reliable to others. It is one of the most important values of our life that creates credibility and trust among us.    In addition to that, expertise is another core value that is not only admired by our own but also others. This is indeed really noteworthy value that you must aim to harness to be successful and be respected by others. 

 
Independence is another value that most admire. A person can be really successful and really rich. But if he doesn’t have freedom, the person is the most unfortunate person in the world as he won’t be able enjoys it on his own. Personal development and meaningful work is also very significant for us in our work life which helps us in reaching our aim to become a successful entrepreneur in life if we can align our values along with our talents to areas of our future endeavor.

Your road for success: Step THREE

 

 Step THREE - Discovering our talents

Everyone has a talent that makes them special to others. It can be a really easy one like whistling a song, a critical one like counting cards or even a silly talent like drinking one liter of water in just a minute. The main fact is that everyone has talent among them although many of us are unaware of it. If you can discover your talents it can make you more effective and interesting to others and help you going after what week want in life.

Discovering your talent is both easy and difficult at the same time for some of us. But if you really want to identify tour talents, then you must look deep in to this which can and will change your life and the way you are going to lead it. The people around us are the best possible mean to help you identify your talents. As we tend to focus mostly on others and ignore ourselves, we stay in the dark about our talents. Hence, it is always a great idea to ask others about what they feel really special about us. It can be our family or our friends with whom we spent most of our time. We should also be receptive to other and listen to very carefully. Obviously not everyone will be able help us in discovering our talents. Other way to discover our talents are self assessment tools. There are thousands of self assessment tools available on Internet, magazines. But if you really want to identify our hidden talents you should go for some professional psychologist than to depend on readymade tools. (graphology test is also an interesting tool)

One more thing that you can do identify your talents is to ask for help within yourself. You should try identifying things that you do better than other and effortlessly. You might be shocked to identify that you already had mastered some talent which you weren’t aware since it was so natural to you. You should also look into your past achievements where you made some success. Your passion and interest is also linked to your talents. So you should ask what you are passionate about. It is for sure, with some trial and error, you will be able to discover your talents. But the biggest challenge will come afterwards when you will face question of what to do with your talent. Obviously, the very first thing to do with your talent is to harness and make it more perfect since it will be with you in your future life.  You should always try to discover new ideas to and be more creative with yourself.

One thing you should keep in mind that your talents could be your biggest asset if only you can use them properly.  If you don’t use talent appropriately, then you won’t have benefit out of it.  Hence, you should always make investment on your talent and try to utilize it to its full potential.

Your road for success: Step TWO

Step two: Analyzing Our Current Status

It was 1970 when the Lunar program of NASA, known as Appolo 13 ran into a number of accidents and put itself in jeopardy risking the lives of all three crew members and the huge amount resources invested in the project. In this situation, the very first thing the crew on that ship did, was to explore their current status, inventories to identify the best alternative to keep them alive and safely return to earth. The same strategy is also applicable to people who are in pursuit of excellence in their life and success in life.

 
When making the important decision about future that make a life changing impact, it is necessary to go through current situation in life and every aspects of it. These aspects can range from academic background, professional knowledge and expertise, health, social surrounding, money, friends and many others. Among these, health is one of the most important factors which is the pre-requisite for success.  That is why; wise people have cited “your health is your biggest wealth”. Without a sound health it will be really utilize all aspects of an individual. Hence, you should consider your health before making plans for future and keep a close eye on it. Next important thing to consider while analyzing current status is your background where you come from. Your family is your biggest strength that not only provides you support but also guidance to go after your aim. Hence, ensuring family support in your future endeavor is also a must.
Your learning is also very important which helps to reach your potential. It is a fast changing world and the learning that can keep you up to dated and overcome the challenges that the environment throws at you. Hence, if you have any interest where you want to go, you must identify link between that area and your learning. The learning may not be academic but even real life learning can be fruitful while you are pursuing your aim in life. your social network and friends are crucial. Now a days, most of the business are done through referral and acquaintances. If you have contacts in the area where you are looking for a career, they might turn out to be really helpful through their support. Last but not the least, your area of interest is also important thing that many people tend to forget while planning for their life. People must go into things where they find interest. There is no better way than to be involved in a work that you also enjoy in the same.  

The concept behind analyzing your current status including all these aspects is to identify the best synergy with your future course of action. Since, choosing your career plan is a very important and critical decision, you must consider your current status and try to make the best match of your future course of action.

Your road for success: Step ONE

Step One

One of the first questions when thinking of personal development is usually “where do I start?”   Development is based on what problem or changes you want to make in life or what problems your want to solve.

I suggest starting at the beginning, getting the basics rolling will have a definite positive motion on your life that will help with other changes you wish to make.

Energy and Attitude
Energy is needed to take action towards reaching goals. If you have none it will be easy to not give 100% towards what you want.
How to get more energy?
Get enough sleep
Eat better
Exercise a couple of times a week
More energy = ability to take action to the things you want to change and develop

Attitude
Improve it.
Learn to live in the now,
Be Positive about the things you want and the now around you
Set Goals
There is no back; only the forward

There are books, tapes, web sites, coaches and more to help motivate and put you on the road to developing the person you want to be.  The above are the first steps to being the best you want to be.

Do you believe in changes?!

 Life, since a very longtime, has been going in alot of changes, history has been changed, people have been changed actually, the way we think?! They way we fight, they way we believe?! Everything has been changed.

 But, have you ever thought about how or why those changes happend?! What is the reason from changes and changing?! What is the point, from seeing new things everytime?! And how can we make those changes and where should we start from?!

 Well first I believe, that behind every change that could happen to every man in this life, has a story behind it, when you just feel that you don't want to do the same thing anymore, or you just tired of living this life, or maybe you just want to try something different, or make yourself a better person, that is a reason to change, but for a reason or another, alot of people don't believe in change, alot of people just don't believe that changes is something possible. But why is that?!

 I must say that there are alot of people who are afraid from trying something new, or just afraid from being new persons, even if they don't like the way they are living their lives. It's like, they are afraid from taking the risk of changing themselves. Afraid from seeing new things. Even if they know somehow that history has been changed, because a first step that has been made by alot of people. And this first step is when a group of people just hate the reality that they are living it, and they just don't want to keep watching like alot of people do. So they believe in something named "change", and they believe that they have the ability to change all of that if they just start changing themselves, change the way they live, the way they spend their time, the way they work, they way the see chances and opportunities.

 When you try to open your eyes and your minds to see through your imagination how can life be after you believe that changing is something possible and how can life be if you stop forcing yourself to be more related with traditions. and you try to find ways, ways that can make you better in your life. And you try to be  an experimental person, only then I believe, you will realize, that we're that changes, small changes in ourlives, can make a better future.

A strange feeling

 In a way like you have never seen before, you feel like you are going in a fight, between you and yourself, in a fight, that is responsible for almost everything. You just get a feeling, that tries to show you what you couldn't see for a longtime, it tries to show you the real meaning of life, the real meaning of hope, the real meaning of chasing dreams. It just tries to wake you up, to see life from another view.

 In a few words, it tries to make you remember, what once meant everything to you. Or just, what are you really able to do, just to make things true. It's like, for a moment, you feel like, your plans, or your believing, or your ability, are not enough, or maybe you just need to be stronger.

 In another way, this feeling, shows you how many things have you done wrong in your life, how many people have your hurt, and how many dreams have you just, let them go away. In most of cases, this feeling just tries to call for a change, for all those people who love you and care about you. For all those things that deserve living for. For all those dreams that deserve fighting for.

 This feeling will not take a longtime, maybe alot of people will not notice it at all, but those who does?! They are very lucky.

People should believe

  People should believe, that by time is moving on, everyone is getting better, day after day. How everyone is living his life?! How everyone is learning, from experiences? situations? up's and down's? Everyone, is dealing with alot of things everyday, things that somehow, really has the ability to make him a better person.

 But now. Alot of people maybe. Maybe they just, couldn't be exactly, the persons that they wanted to be years ago! Even if they screwed in so many things, or made alot of things go wrong. Even if they are not proud of theirselves at all.

 But people should believe, that now, now is time when you should believe that you have learned enough, and you are now wise enough, just to take better decisions, and change what u still can change? And keep moving on.

And remember, it is always, about what you truely believe in...

In the middle of castle full of hope and dreams

Once, I had a dream, and I thought that it enough, but it was not. Then, I had plans. I thought it was enough, but it was not either. And again, I had believing, and I thought once again that it was enough, but it was not.

 There was always, something missing. I don't know but. Always, I feel like things are not enough, but then, I could see very clearly, what was missing. The missing thing that was and still totally able, to change your life whenever you want.

 That missing thing is the action. Sometimes, we just have exactly the perfect idea, the right plan to blow this world. But, we just, don't go for it. Even if we know, that that plan it going to work. We're not different from eachother after all, because most of us, try to find reasons just to stop moving forwards, just to give up, We convince ourselves that we're not good enough!! We're just, stupid enough to not make dreams true!

 This is a true story, no offence but. Believe me or not, those who does not have this missing thing. They're exactly, who're going to change this world one day.