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Showing posts with label Thinking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thinking. Show all posts

December 14, 2012

Who doesn't want to live happy for the rest of his life anyway?!


 Oh hold on for a second. I will explain it as easy as I can. But first, tell me... Who doesn't want to live happy for the rest of his life?! Who doesn't want to wake up every morning with that shiny smile on his face?! Nobody I guess. Because happiness for alot of people is a reason to live, and a reason to fight.

 Alright, a while ago, something like magic happend to me, made me see one of the keys that make people feel happy. Before I talk about it, let me ask you a question... How many times you felt that everything doesn't worth fighting for anymore and everything for once doesn't worth being in your life anymore?! And we just feel bad about it, and then, everything becomes different, and for a second, we feel bad about everything else, even the things that we used to like. I'm sure that it happend to all of you. But, let me tell you about the second part...

 It was a matter of minutes, hours, days or weeks. And then, everything becomes normal once again. And we have our old life back. That is exactly what happens in most of cases you know...

 But that, that gave me an idea to think about. Actually, it gave me qusetions to find them an answer... And I want you guys to help me to find these answers to discover this key of happiness.

 Well, because of "Things" or "Experiences" we feel bad. So, can other "Things" or "Experiences" makes us feel better?!
Ok maybe yes!! But How?! Mmmm, Having a good day? A good experience? Meeting a good friend? All of those can make us feel better, right?!
Ok wait guys. I've just got the right qusetion for all of us... Have you ever felt bad because of a bad idea that came to your mind or a bad experience you remembered?! If yes, then we still can feel better or happier because of a good idea we get or a great experience we remember, Right?!

 That proves one thing.. Happiness is a state of mind exactly like we talked about "Capacity is a state of mind" Because we're kind of responsibles about all the thinking that comes and goes from our minds, and we can make an image for everything we want. I mean that's what imaginating is for, right?!

 So, I'm gonna let you on your owns thinking about all the answers we found together just to try to understand the key of happiness that's going to make you feel happy for the rest of your lives.

November 27, 2012

Failures or a victory ?! It makes the whole difference



Have you ever failed in something so hard and you just felt so bad because of it?! An exam maybe?! At school?! At work?! You failed to convince people about your idea?! Or you just felt like you are a loser in your life and you can't keep moving forward because you just couldn't make things how you wanted it to be?!!

 Guess what?! You are not the only one! Because everyone of us has lived this experience before.
But hey listen... If you know what are you fighting for, and you know how much it means to you, then you really mustn't let anything stop you from moving forward. You failed?! So did I. So did everybody. All the great people who changed the world failed once... Not only once, but alot of times, and guess what?! Fail gives you exactly the needed strength to be a better person, to fight harder?! And stronger.

 You know my friend... One of the biggest diffrences between normal people and those who changed the world is that those who changed the world saw failures as a victory. How's that?! They saw it as a victory because they won a lesson. So they worked harder to be better.

 That's what great people have done, and that's what are we going to do if we want to keep moving on stronger.

November 25, 2012

Only then, You will discover what you really should fight for.


 Have you ever had a moment with yourself just to discover... What do you really want in this life?! No, not what your dreams are or what do you want to achieve. But, how do you really want to see this life. How do you want to see it. How do you want to see people. How do you want to see the future... Have you?!

 You can answer yourself but now, let me tell you about my story. When first I had this thinking. I thought that I'm fighting for the right thing. I had alot of dreams that I wanted to achieve back then. But when I had that inspiring moment with myself... I discovered that all my dreams that I was fighting for, or at least most of them?! Are not what I really want in this life. All those dreams, and all those plans?! Will not help me in anything except giving me a fake victory. A fake vicotry that gives exactly the same feeling as the real one... Well, at least for a moment.

 This is the mistery of this life. Alot of people, and I'm one of them obviously, forgot what do they really want. Sometimes because it seems that it is too big to achieve, sometimes because it seems that it needs alot of sacrifices. Or sometimes, There are people hiding between shadows, they fight all the time to make us chase fake dreams.

 But hey, close your eyes for a moment my friend, and try to see life exactly like you want it to be. Only then, you will discover what you really should fight for.

October 04, 2012

Why you need to be an Entrepreneur Of Life


First you need to understand why Entrepreneur? What's so special about that? What Entrepreneurs do usually?

An Entrepreneur is a guy who creates, innovate and bring new things to the world, in the business term, he creates new services, products and sell them.

In life, this would mean to create new way to living, ideas, thinkings that even you can sell them (not for money but in exchange of something else) and this would mean a lot. Not for everyone but for motivated people to that kind of success.

In each one's life there is a battle like way! Some fights for success, others for peace, others for money. Or may be for more than one.. But at the end, I guess the result is the same, which is satisfying an inner feeling of Satisfaction. And this what everyone is looking for.

So, What's you way to your deep satisfaction?
How you think to get into that?

August 16, 2012

Only then, World will see more creativity



 Everyone of us, has lived this experience before, those moments.. When you get this feeling. When ideas like you have never seen before, come to your mind. And in a weird way, everything in your life will seem to easy to control, to easy to direct, and you will just, be able to see clearly, what are you really, able to give up on, just to make another things true!

 People call moments like these: Inspiring moments, when for a reason or another, you see yoursellf and your life like you have never done before. Everyone has his own way to express himself while living moments like these, people write, sing, paint, everyone express his own life like he has never done before.

 Those moments, are the responsibles for showing people things like world never seen before. Something like creativity and art, will be the result of moments like these. All great stuff that we are seeing now, are the results from a very deep inspiring moments, that what happend I believe that every successful man in this world, Steve jobs, Bill gates?! I believe that while they were living those moments, they could see, what is needed in this world, and they went for it, and make it true. For every artist and every man who has shown the world different things, different ideas?! All those books and songs that have been written?! They are the result of alot of an inspiring of things I believe.

 So, what about us?! Can we really, get inspired, and make a change in this world?!

 Well, Yes I believe, we have just to put ourselves in places. Where we can see new things, talk to new people, and having a moment with a different personalities. That will help us to get inspired, and than we just need to express it by the way we like to do, only than. World, will see more art, and more creativity :)


August 15, 2012

The two sides of us!



There will be a time, when you just feel, that there is a big fight, a big fight is happening inside of yourselves, between the two sides that everyone in this world have them, you will be just lost, between what do you really want to do, and what do the world, wants you to do, and even more, you will be wondering, why are you doing that after all?! What is the reason of being here after all?!

 The two sides of you, will start giving you advices, exactly when you feel lost, or when you feel that you need advices, alot of thoughts will come to your mind, and for a moment, everything will seem to weird to do actually, you will feel that you don't like anyone in this life, and maybe, you will just, hate the life that you are living in.

 This is happening (or used to happen) for almost everybody. Exactly when you want to give up, or when you don't want to move forward anymore. Exactly, when don't want to live the rest of your life.

 But, inside everyone of us, there's a little shine that come from our hearts, that little shine, maybe will be too insignificant to see from us, when the bad side of us is controling us, and that makes us waste a lot of time, and lose, alot of people.

 What I want to say that, No matter how good person you are, or how white your heart is, one time, the dark side of your heart will try to contorl you, and sometimes he does, and we just, should be stronger enough, to take him down, and see all the love between us.

August 07, 2012

Alright, I blame you!



I've heared about people, wasted their lives, while they really, were able, to change this world. Everyone is able to change this world actually, but for a reason or another, our dirty society always, convinces them, that it is too big, too big to achieve, too big to make it real, too big to make the change.

 So, we'll feel defeated, and we choose that to be a reason for us, to do something else. And because we didn't believe in ourselves from the beginning, everything well seem impossible to us. Everything will seem "Too big to achieve" to us. And of course, like everyone does, we'll just start blaming situations, people, chances, society and so on...

 But, who's the responsible about this mess?! What is happening to our generation exactly?!

 The answer is, you! You're the first responsible. But... For how long?! For how long you are going to let your dreams fade away?! For how long, you are going to keep your heart dead like that?! Are you really, able to keep yourself blind like that?!

 One day, you will wake up, and one day, you are going to realize, that you really had the ability, to make this world a better place for living, I just hope, that it won't be too late.

August 05, 2012

And this, this is what's happening to everybody!


I don't know but, in this life, for a reason or another. Something, something very strong, stronger then me, is keep pushing me up, there's something in my life, everytime I fall down or everytime I feel like I don't want to do this anymore?! This thing, remember me, who I really am, and what I'm fighting for. Everytime, and for a reason or another, I face situations, I believe that those situations, are reasons, for me, just to keep moving forward, maybe for a reason?! Maybe for a goal?! Maybe to make something true?! I don't know, but I believe, that everything happend for a reason. This is what happend before actualy, and this is exactly what is happening for everybody!!!

July 12, 2012

Future


  For a longtime, something like future was always a mistery, it was something like, everyone wants to know about it, to know how's life is going to be ten, twenty years from now?! How's everything is going to be, and almost everyone was dreaming, for a better future, better way of living, after years from now.

 But, you, what do you think that future really means?! Is future really, something we get or something we make?! I mean, is it really by chance?! To have a better future or not I mean. Is it really, meant to us, to have a bad or good future?!

 Bill Gates said once : "If you are born poor it's not your fault. But if you die poor, it’s your mistake" , I believe that this makes everything in sence, I mean alot of people, are wondering right now how there lives is going to be years from now, while there are others, working for their future so hard, thinking, planning, learning!! So it is logical after all! Future it is not something we get. And chance has nothing to do with your future, and your life.

If you just take a second to see, all people around you, the most successful people in your family, or in the whole world, you'll see that they have spent their times dreaming, and than believing, planning, and than going after their dreams, and now, they're successfuls! They made this happen, they didn't wait for chance, they didn't wait for success to come to them, but they went to it!!

So, could this change anything in your life?! Think of it.

July 10, 2012

A self revolution and change


A self revoliton!! Another secret weapond inside everyone of us. We all do mistakes, and we all dream to be better person, but only few of us who has the ability to change. But, how's that?!

  Because change needs power from the inside, you can say to whoever you want that you're strong and anoybody in this world can believe you. But to change? Change your heart, change the way you live, change they who you are? You need to be really honest about how strong you are to make this step corerectly.

  That's why I want to call it a self revolution. Tired of being sad and alone?! Tired of being looser all the time?! Tired of being the second person in someone's life? Tired of how things work in your life ?! A self rebolution will lead you directly to a better life after few sacrifices...

 And because of this some people find it little bit hard. Because knowing with who you're ready to sacrifice and to be who after your sacrifices and changes need a very strong " Emotion's controling".

 But remember guys. It's all about being a better person isn't it? So it's worth it.

July 09, 2012

How to turn Defeat into Victory


 Onetime, you will lose, and propably, you are going to watch your whole castle of hope falling apart, you will find yourself losing between what you have wanted to do, what you are supposed to do, and what real life really gave you. In a shot way, onetime, You will find yourself just... Defeated!

 But the question that we are supposed to ask right now is: How can we face this kind of defeat and turn it into victory?! We can do that after all, can't we?! We just need a little believing in ourselves, but than what?!

 For a reason or another, for so many times, we found ourselves defeated, but guess what?! We are not the only ones, And try to guess again. Situations like these were the main reason that creat Heroes, Life's changers, World leaders, Most successful men on this earth!! This is the truth!! But, how could this happen?!

 It is easy, when we are defeated, our thinking takes another road, and automatically, it started to look for new ways to move on, but for a reason or another, we, we people, prefere to feel defeated. We prefere to keep blaming ourselves or the others in something that we will not matter. So, what have these "Most successful people on earth" done when they were defeated?!

 Well, they took a while on their owns, they tried to figure what went wrong, what are the main reasons that made them fail, and the most important thing, they chose what have they tought that could turn their defeat into victory, and believed in it, and moved on stronger!!

 Because after all, you are the only responsible about yourself and your future, so do what's the best for you.

July 08, 2012

Don't second guess


  We all have lived this moments before... And I believe that we all had that feeling before...

 When you just cannot know which road from all of these is the right one to us, for a happier life. I mean, which road from all of these can lead us to a happier life?! Sometimes, we life seems to us so confusing and things become unclear, and then, we'll be totally lost.

  But I believe! I totally believe, that if we think that there's a shine, a small shine of happiness in one of those roads, we should take that road right away!!! No second guess!! No wait!! If we truely believe that it will lead us to a happier life then believe in it and take it!! Go for it!! Never look back!! This step right now is going to be the key of another steps!! And those steps are going to be the keys of anothers

 Don't wait to have a full plan!! Move forward whenever you believe in a step!! And make sure that it will lead you to what do you want!

July 06, 2012

The principale of the next mile


 For a longtime, I've been noticing people, people having dreams, and work hard to make them true in this life. I've seen people want to reach the top, I've seen people want to travel the world. And even if their dreams or their goals are not that huge... I've seen people want to stop smoking? Or even want to finish a job or they have to do something. But for a reason or another, They always fail, even in the smallest things!

 But why is that?! Don't they have the courage?! Are not they strong enough?! Don't they have enough believing in theirselves?! It might be!!! But!! There's a reason that made alot of people fail, and most people don't know it yet, or don't believe that it could be true!! But believe me... It is...

 This reason is, that most of us think that we can do a huge change in one decision! Most people don't respect The-Step-By-Step philosophy.

 Think of it and tell me how many time you gave up because you wanted to everything at once but you couldn't?! Well, I gave up alot, and that made me watching alot of my dreams fading away.

 So, What are we suppose to do now?!

 I think, we should just respect the principale of the next mile, Take it easy, make a plan for your next mile, and then another of the second mile, and by time, you will notice that you have walked hunderds of miles. And believe me, it works, for anything you would like to do or to be in this life.

July 05, 2012

Shame on us, Right?!!


Every successful man now, had dreams, had goals, and they totally believed that they are going to make it. They had a reason to live, a reason to fight, a reason to never give up. Those are the most successful people on this planet, and guess what?!

 I'm totally not surprised that there is still almost none of us one of them yet, while the world is moving on so fast, we are totally out of the race, but why?! Why are we still, totally out of the race like that?! Why?!

 Okay well, our porblem is simple, we fight the one who wants to make a change in this world, we fight the one who believes, the one who has dreams, the one who sets his goals high. We fight people who has the talent, we laugh at people who are trying hard, and in another way, we like to see poeple lose, we want to see them too lazy to chase their dreams, we fight them to make them stop belieing, we humiliate those who wants to have a better future, THOSE WHO WANTS TO CHANGE THE WORLD.

 This is the truth, and this is how we are dealing with those who really, have the ability to make this world a better place of living, this is what makes us really, totally out of the race. Shame on us, don't you think?!

 So, I don't think it is that hard to get it, we are making ourselves look like idiot if we see it in that way, I wonder, to when it will last ?!

July 04, 2012

Achievments


 For some people, it is a reason to live. For other people, it is the goal that they are fighting for. For other people, it is their dream, their final hope in this life. It could be also, a puprpose to live this life for some people. Maybe it is responsible to give people the needed strengh and make them fight more ...

 But, whatever it is for anybody in this life, it gives us always, the needed power to work harder, it always gives us the needed hope to be a better persons, to make a real change in this life. Setting a goal in our minds and working hard to get it nomatter what, will give us the right vision about what do we truely want in this life.

That's why, there's behind every successful man in this life, a goal that has been set longtime ago, and believing that nobody in this world could take it off from him, now we are living a life where every success is the result of thoughts that have made by people who truely believed that they are able, to change the something in this world.

July 03, 2012

I want to see it, exactly like you do.


 I like it when everyone is happy, I want to see people helping eachother, I want to see life full of love, where people share their hope, their kindness, their happiness. I want to see people, fighting for what really matters. I want to see real brothers, realy friends, real lovers. I wanna see a different life.

 Maybe you are wondering why would I want stuff like that ?!! And how could I believe that this really, could happen?!!

 Okay well, if you just try to have a moment with yourself, just to think, honestly. After taking a deep breath, you will realize that this is truely, what do you all want in this life. This is what did we use to want time ago! This is what we were taught when we were young by our grandparents.

 But for a reason or another, we have all forgotten that, but why ?!

 This age of speed again, it made us slaves, it made us forget, forget what do we truely must remember. This age of speed has became the reason for forgetting all what we have learned, and it made us start caring about what does not matter, but... For how long?!!!

 FOR HOW LONG ?!

June 24, 2012

Want it?! Reach for it and grab it ;)


 When you hold on for a second to think about something...

  And after a while you realize that you really want that thing that you was thinking of to happens and comes true!! It doesn't matter what is it or what kind of things is!! But the important thing that you really want it to happen in your life! A success in study? Being the first in something? Winning a competition or make something come true...?

 Be sure that if you truely want it! You will do it!! If that thing will really make you feel better and happier and proud of yourself you really shouldn't let anyone take that from you! And never let anyone says that you can't even if your close friends are the ones whom think that you can't! If you think that it's going to make you feel better then GO FOR IT! REACH AND GRAB IT! MAKE YOUR DREAM COMES TRUE! It's all about you and what do you want to do with your life after all.

 So?! Ready to move on?

June 22, 2012

The needed step


 I believe in this life, no matter how things look amazing to us, no matter how many times we said that we are not obliged to work harder because we don't want a better life, no matter how perfect life seemed to us, no matter how perfect we seemed to ourselves! One day we are going to realize that we really have to work harder and smarter because really ... The road of happiness will never end.

 But. It will never end right. But as you are moving forward day after day, moving along this world to the unkown will give you the ability to see yourself and your life from different views. Maybe you will see yourself broken, maybe you will see yourself weak, maybe you will see yourself stupid and idiot, I don't know you may see yourself completely taking the wrong road, the wrong step maybe?!

 But you should never, NEVER let yourself think that you can't! Becarfull if someday yourself will tell you that "CHANGE" is impossible! That being better person is impossible! That Arriving to the perfectness is impossible! Maybe nobody cares! Maybe nobody gives a shit! Maybe nobody wants to listen to your story!

 So what?! I believe and you should believe with me, that this time, is time do do it for yourself! Not for anybody else! I believe that this time, is time to make the needed changes! Changes in the way you're living your life?! Changes in the way you're acting in any situations you face! Change that going to make differences in this world!

Right?!

June 21, 2012

Reaction!


 Time is moving on and we are dealing with so many experiences that we are somehow obliged to experience! We all have faced up's and down's in this life and everyone has faced it with different kinds! And I believe that we are still going to face alot of them!

 And I don't know if these experiences were to strong then us oneday! Maybe they were a reason for making changes in our lives! Maybe these experiences gave us the ability to see life with a different way! To see people with different way maybe! Maybe because of experiences we've experienced we changed the way we see ourselves, and that's exactly what I want to talk about.

 Nomatter how hard situations we have lived, it is not going to matter because everyone in this world has faced like it before or maybe worst, what really matter and will matter for the rest of our lives is not how down we were, not how bad we felt, but how did we react!! What did we do!! What did choose to do and which step we are going to take! We just need to forget about the past, about what happend. We need to stop crying about things that will never come again, and even if it will, we need to realize that our reactions after anything that happend to our lives is the responsible for our future.
 

June 20, 2012

Who are we?!


 Wherever you go in this life, you will find different kinds of people, so many different kinds of people actually! But, the right question that we are supposed to ask right now is, what kind of people are we?!

 I mean. Are we really the kind of people that we want?! Are we really the kind of people that we wanted to be when we were young?! ARE WE REALLY THE KIND OF PEOPLE that we are going to be proud of few years later?! Are we really the kind of people that history is going to say that we gave everything we have ever had to make the world a better place of living?!

 Are we that kind of people that try to share love, care, happiness, share their smiles, their hope, their humanity just to see better looks in the eyes of others?! Are we?!

 I mean why not for once at least, try to delete all that hate that we have in our hearts for people, why not for once, try to make all those ones who life didn't fair them to smile once again and make them realize that there's still hope and it'll always be! Why not for once, try to forget our gread and give more to others?!

 I believe that if everyone tries to do that at least once, the world will be better place of living!!