September 09, 2013

Choose the right answer for life's questions and everything will be fine.

 It first challenges your will to start the whole advanture... It will test your strength, your power... ll And it will make you answer the question of the hour... "Do you really want to do it?" "Do you really want to make it right?"

 The confusing thing is life may help you to find the answer... It may inspire you and push you forward so you can be ready for what is hidden for you. It may show you some of what is waiting for you... And at the moment... The moment when everything is waiting for the green light... People's different state of minds will make the whole difference.

 Just few minutes before the advanture get started we find some people didn't wake up yet. Or they didn't realize just yet that this fight should be won! But that's fine... If we hop(e that they'll wake up just soon...

 There are others will just accept the challenge from the first step they make. Some of them will accept the fact they're too weak at the moment. But they also accept the challenge of getting better and change how things work soon enough.

 But what is going to be changed next is almost everything. When the advanture get started and for a second you discover that you're not in your deam land anymore. Things are getting harder and you're getting weaker -you think- and you are running out of time. Then and only then alot of people will start giving up. Alot of people and even if they started the whole battle with a self-trust like world has never seen before they will just quit. They will just see themselves too small. And their goal too big. And as you see people quitting. As you see things getting harder... You will have that killing thinking inside of you... And for a reason or another you find yourself obliged to answer another question which will make the whole difference. Your answer will decide the result of your beautiful battle. "Few months before the end, Give up or just not yet?" And this question will be asked to you all the time. When you go to sleep at night... And when you wake up every morning... It won't stop being asked until the moment you win. Maybe the only person who will not have to answer this qusetion is the one who starts the advanture as a winner. Fights as a winner. And wins as a winner.

 Anyway, Let me tell you a story of mine:

 3rd juin, 9h45am. It was the moment when I saw the castle of hope I've been building falling down. The moment when I hated the world the most. The world turned to be black. And the only thing I've done at that moment is getting up from my chair and give up the teacher my beautiful empty math answer's paper. And too a deep breath and told myself "Okay, This is over." I even didn't want to come that afternoon for the english exam. It was just...OVER! I spent the next few hours I remember thinking and making plans for the next few years because my first plan of myself cannot work anymore. 10 minutes before the english exam I decided to go. Not to fight again but because I was confused and had nothing to do. Entered, sat down, answerd few questions and then all the magic happens. When everybody was busy answering the questions. I was holding a calculator and doing some math (Which were much easier than the Math exam). I found out that if I get three in math. Thirteen in science and thirteen in pshyics that I will just make it! At that moment I saw a small shine of hope and had nothing to do except moving on toward it. And then I asked myself a question "Oh a challenge, am I going to accept it?" Trust me. The answer changed my whole life obviously and change the whole thing.

 It was on of the most amazing moments in my life because for a second me and myself stood up together and showed the world very clearly that whoever you are, whenever you are, wherever you are... Giving up should never be an option. Never... Because in the end... I made it... And felt proud of myself like I've never been before...

 So my friends, my message is clear. I'm not going to lie to you. THings won't be easy. But we all know; "The one who thinks he can, and the one who thinks he cannot are usually both right." As long as you believe in yourself. As long as you're accepting the challenges. As long as you're moving forward even if everything around you fell down then no worries. Nothing can stop you. And nothing can stand between you and the moment when your mom look at your eyes and says : "I'm proud of you son..." Yeah... Nothing.



January 19, 2013

There are moments, Remind you of everything..

There are moment in life come to you with a very weird way just to make you see things in your life like you have never seen them before. You start feeling like there are alot of things that you kind of forgot. And it is time to care about them once again, while there are alot of other things that gave them more than they really deserve. And of course, day after day you start feeling like you are not making any progress. 

 This feeling is a mixture between blaming yourself and missing your old life... Or at least, missing few things from your old life.

 And like any other feeling, this one calls for a change, it calls for waking up once again to see life from other ways. It calls for stop doing things and start focusing on others.

 That is exactly how I felt, and that is exactly how I reacted. And that is exactly how I had my smile back. And to be honest with you guys, that is exactly how are you going to feel oneday. But I think that you are ready for it, arn't you?!

December 14, 2012

Who doesn't want to live happy for the rest of his life anyway?!

 Oh hold on for a second. I will explain it as easy as I can. But first, tell me... Who doesn't want to live happy for the rest of his life?! Who doesn't want to wake up every morning with that shiny smile on his face?! Nobody I guess. Because happiness for alot of people is a reason to live, and a reason to fight.

 Alright, a while ago, something like magic happend to me, made me see one of the keys that make people feel happy. Before I talk about it, let me ask you a question... How many times you felt that everything doesn't worth fighting for anymore and everything for once doesn't worth being in your life anymore?! And we just feel bad about it, and then, everything becomes different, and for a second, we feel bad about everything else, even the things that we used to like. I'm sure that it happend to all of you. But, let me tell you about the second part...

 It was a matter of minutes, hours, days or weeks. And then, everything becomes normal once again. And we have our old life back. That is exactly what happens in most of cases you know...

 But that, that gave me an idea to think about. Actually, it gave me qusetions to find them an answer... And I want you guys to help me to find these answers to discover this key of happiness.

 Well, because of "Things" or "Experiences" we feel bad. So, can other "Things" or "Experiences" makes us feel better?!
Ok maybe yes!! But How?! Mmmm, Having a good day? A good experience? Meeting a good friend? All of those can make us feel better, right?!
Ok wait guys. I've just got the right qusetion for all of us... Have you ever felt bad because of a bad idea that came to your mind or a bad experience you remembered?! If yes, then we still can feel better or happier because of a good idea we get or a great experience we remember, Right?!

 That proves one thing.. Happiness is a state of mind exactly like we talked about "Capacity is a state of mind" Because we're kind of responsibles about all the thinking that comes and goes from our minds, and we can make an image for everything we want. I mean that's what imaginating is for, right?!

 So, I'm gonna let you on your owns thinking about all the answers we found together just to try to understand the key of happiness that's going to make you feel happy for the rest of your lives.

November 27, 2012

Failures or a victory ?! It makes the whole difference

Have you ever failed in something so hard and you just felt so bad because of it?! An exam maybe?! At school?! At work?! You failed to convince people about your idea?! Or you just felt like you are a loser in your life and you can't keep moving forward because you just couldn't make things how you wanted it to be?!!

 Guess what?! You are not the only one! Because everyone of us has lived this experience before.
But hey listen... If you know what are you fighting for, and you know how much it means to you, then you really mustn't let anything stop you from moving forward. You failed?! So did I. So did everybody. All the great people who changed the world failed once... Not only once, but alot of times, and guess what?! Fail gives you exactly the needed strength to be a better person, to fight harder?! And stronger.

 You know my friend... One of the biggest diffrences between normal people and those who changed the world is that those who changed the world saw failures as a victory. How's that?! They saw it as a victory because they won a lesson. So they worked harder to be better.

 That's what great people have done, and that's what are we going to do if we want to keep moving on stronger.

November 25, 2012

Only then, You will discover what you really should fight for.

 Have you ever had a moment with yourself just to discover... What do you really want in this life?! No, not what your dreams are or what do you want to achieve. But, how do you really want to see this life. How do you want to see it. How do you want to see people. How do you want to see the future... Have you?!

 You can answer yourself but now, let me tell you about my story. When first I had this thinking. I thought that I'm fighting for the right thing. I had alot of dreams that I wanted to achieve back then. But when I had that inspiring moment with myself... I discovered that all my dreams that I was fighting for, or at least most of them?! Are not what I really want in this life. All those dreams, and all those plans?! Will not help me in anything except giving me a fake victory. A fake vicotry that gives exactly the same feeling as the real one... Well, at least for a moment.

 This is the mistery of this life. Alot of people, and I'm one of them obviously, forgot what do they really want. Sometimes because it seems that it is too big to achieve, sometimes because it seems that it needs alot of sacrifices. Or sometimes, There are people hiding between shadows, they fight all the time to make us chase fake dreams.

 But hey, close your eyes for a moment my friend, and try to see life exactly like you want it to be. Only then, you will discover what you really should fight for.